I was talking to a friend today and he said, "Michelle, I wish I would have known that girl was crazy when I met her."
I told him we as a people (black, white, cream, creole) look at someone from the outside instead of trying to get to know their mind. I am telling you the baddest chick that got a fat booty like "Pinky" and a pretty face like "Kim Kard.", guys can be crazy and not put together in the head. LADIES that man that is so fine wit the "LL Cool J" lips and the "Shemar Moore" body may be so incecure where he will stalk you or beat on you. I know it is cliche' but, everything that glitters aint gold and everything that smell good aint always good for you!
Now if you already in that situation where you in a relationship....ask yourself are you done? What is your ROCK BOTTOM?
Now everybody knows exactly what I mean when I say ROCK BOTTOM! Now I will state this in the beginning my Rock Bottom isnt going to be the same as yours!
Rock Bottom is when you are done and through with whatever the situation is. See we as a people we say we are done but, you keep going back to the samething; you have not hit rock bottom then! A person has to realize that they want to change. Not only do you have to realize you want to change but, you have to take action and accept the challenges that will come along with it!
NOW fellas and ladies dont think you can change another person! YOU ONLY HAVE POWER OVER YOURSELF! So, now that I have said that a relationship is like a partnership, which means you will have to be ready to share and listen to what each other has to say. See from what I have seen in my own past relationships and my friends relationships is, we forget that your partner is human and they also, has feelings. Just be mindful because somethings will set somebody off and you didnt mean too.
So, please watch what and who you let walk into your life! You never know what type of spin you will fall into!
MIMI xoxoxo
PS....I am starting a positive blog for young adults (for males and females) So please be on the look out for that.....If you have anything you want me to talk about....just inbox me or comment below!